Never mind that I have social anxiety, which adds on an extra layer of hell. So if something like that happens, how do you even approach that cute guy that works at the GSU or Fitrec info desk? There is all this unpredictability in it, which, to a person who actually enjoys organized structure, is a nightmare. Try going to a small party, barely fifteen people, and not talking to anyone, even though you have something in common with every single person there.For people who struggle with social anxiety, dating can sometimes be an absolute nightmare.The constant pressure of spending time in a social context while talking to another person, is overwhelming. Well, it depends on how you perceive the situation.
I go blank.” She sits in a circle of 20 in a dance studio on the west side of Manhattan.
As we discussed in previous articles, people who struggle with social anxiety find it difficult to cope with failure.
In fact, they’re so terrified of failure that, most of the time, they don’t even attempt to go on dates.
There was a guy I met first semester, and he was cool, and the only reason why I even smile at him on the street now is because he smiled and said hi a week later. And then he shows up, and I immediately look down at my book, hoping he approaches me, instead of having to scream his name out and beckon him over.
Those guys that never acknowledge me later, well I’m never going to say hi to you, because now I feel like you thought I was forgettable. When I was sending messages to this one guy, I would try and play it cool, so that he wouldn’t think that I was too desperate. Then sometimes I actually get to meet the person face to face. Which would be the worst, because what if he doesn’t hear me and everyone around me does? I called him and the majority of the phone call was uhs and ums.